You don’t need another fight. You need a strategy.
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After 23 years in the trenches of family law, I’ve helped thousands of spouses navigate their divorce — but I’ve also seen what the system can do to good people. These are not proud stories of a caring judicial system. Rather, these are the bloodbath divorce and custody cases whispered between neighbors and co-workers.
This can all be avoided.
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1. Avoid high attorney's hourly rates.
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2. Avoid high retainers and deposits.
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3. Avoid common fights that don't impact the results.
If you want to protect your future, your finances, and your sanity, I offer a free private consultation designed to help you move forward with clarity and without having to spend a lot of money for a battle you don't want.
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People enter a divorce raw and hurting, and in the process, they lose parts of themselves. Emotions go numb. Identities blur. The only thing that lingers is the want for revenge, for validation, for an expeditious exit. A common problem is that most spouses and often their lawyers don't know how to do this without damage.
A Divorce without Damage
The goal is to avoid financial damage, and sometimes more importantly, emotional damage. How to keep one's soul intact in the process seems to be elusive to many lawyers and the court system cares little to correct this problem.
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Making matters worse, and what lawyers tend to to be shy about, is that the attorney's fees will plague your case and choke the dignity out of you and your family. They know that your divorce will put you into bankruptcy, but won't say so initially, but later the fees will essentially force you to settle where and when you shouldn't, leaving you without options and disenchanted with the process and the Court system, and hating lawyers.
Avoid a Bloodbath Divorce with the right kind of advice that works for you and your family
When your soul has been whispering "enough" for a long time, and your ready to get the right information from someone that wants you to avoid the worst of all the unpleasantries of a divorce, I can help. I have watched nightmarish cases in the Court system over and over, and unfortunately, I was part of that system for many years - until I figured out it didn't have to be that way.
So what makes me different?
I was that lawyer that everyone turned to when losing wasn't an option. It didn't take me long to learn the secrets of how things worked and how to deliver a courtroom win, consistently. Spouses and parents throughout the United States were starting to call me. The problem, however, is that I started to struggle with my perception of justice when I realized that the outcomes of a divorce or custody case could be manipulated and with enough money, anything could happen. The system was rigged and we lawyers knew the "secrets" that aren't open for public consumption.
More importantly, I realized the flaws in the system and I became more and more intolerant of what really going on below the surface: the imperfect system cares very little for the unique circumstances and needs of a family, where then the results are cookie-cutter and one size fits all. This makes the end of most cases horrific for most spouses. The saddest part of this is that Judges also know this but they are not in a good position to stop this from happening. They are as bound to Court Rules as the attorneys.
Many Judges and lawyers want to make a change, but politics and pressure from the bar prevents anything meaningful from happening to help you. You are nothing but a short burning candle in a long term process.
Within this broken system, I have spent 23 years watching people lose parts of themselves and paying money to damage their souls. The true insult is that many spouses believe that their lawyers are “helping” while they inch closer to closer to utter chaos and bankruptcy.
You with the right lawyer and different approach,
you can save your sanity and your money.
I have spent decades watching people unravel—emotionally, spiritually, financially. And in many ways, lawyers facilitate this horrible process. Not because they wanted to destroy spouses or their children, but because the system has always been there, it's lucrative, and there's zero financial motivation to do something differently. Lawyers keep the system in place because it pays too well to try something different, and they have the cover of portraying themselves as an "advocate" in an adverserial system.
I no longer just help people finish their divorce, I help my clients better manage their emotions, better manage their expectations, and how their case is handled. Preparing the battle doesn't have to be the "standard" approach when there's a disagreement. In fact over 98% of all cases settle, often after spouses have spent tens of thousands of dollars in fees. So, despite all the fight and the fees, ultimately a settlement is in your future. You can decide NOW that you're better than this.
Over 50% of my clientele hired someone else first, and later figured out they were on a course for disaster
I'm not just a divorce lawyer, I'm a fixer - I create solutions.
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​I have over two decades of time tested methods to manage divorce crisis and provide people with strategic approaches to every problem a divorce can throw at you.​
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Consistently, I receive calls from spouses telling me that my approach was better and they regret later hiring someone else. Usually asking me if I can now fix what happened to them.
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Ongoing referrals from not only clients but also from spouses that chose to not retain me and later finding out my advice was not only correct, but could have saved them thousands of dollars.
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Other Lawyers have often hired me as a consultant to help with the unattainable: a divorce without damage.
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I receive calls, emails, and texts from lawyers asking me for my advice on how to best address a problem in their case.​​
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I am a strategic advocate in the mosts basic sense. If you're looking for a divorce without damage, then you not only found the right website, but also the right lawyer.
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There is a soul cost to a divorce and only the right lawyer and right guidance minimizes the damage.
Here's what I can do right now for you:​
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If you want to protect your future, your finances, and your sanity, I offer a free no-pressure initial phone call designed to help you move forward with clarity—without needing to start a war.
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Let's plan your ​Divorce Strategy Session. These are free no-pressure private phone calls with me. We discuss everything about case where I not only provide clarity, I will explain to you how you can avoid the chaos.
"Most people don’t plan for divorce—but the system is built to turn fear into conflict. After 23 years in the trenches, I’ve seen how quickly things can spiral—and how unnecessary it often is. You don’t have to go to war. You need a strategy."
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What You Get With Our First Free Talk:
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A personalized game plan
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Honest insight into how divorce law really works and It will work for you and where the traps are.
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Guidance through mediation, court preparation, or negotiation
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Get a better understanding of what your lawyer is doing or should be doing and how to better control your case
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What the good moves are, and why
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What the bad move are, and why
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Creative tactics for difficult exes or high-conflict cases
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A customized affordable quote to retain my services.
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“Is Mr. Nordini Right for You?”
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Maybe not. However, Mr. Nordini focus is representing spouses with the following beliefs:
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You’re considering divorce and don't want the lawyer to overcharge you.
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You want to avoid costly mistakes in your case.
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You’re in a high-conflict case and need an edge or want to better understanding why your case is going sideways and how to better fix and calm your case.
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You want to protect your kids and your peace.
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You want to avoid losing your assets to your spouse and to your lawyer.
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You’re overwhelmed and don’t trust your lawyer or the system
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You know or very much understand that a simple mistake in the first month of your divorce can cost you thousands of dollars.
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Your current lawyer has highjacked your case and you want to get control of things before you and your family are left in ruins.
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You want advice from someone that really knows what your facing and knows how to get you through this.
I’m Paul Nordini. I’ve been a divorce lawyer for 23 years—but I’ve also spent much of that time questioning the system I work in. I believe divorce doesn’t have to destroy people. My goal is to help you move forward with clarity and strength, and most importantly without unnecessary conflict.
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These strategy sessions are what I’d tell a friend or family member when they call me seeking advice - direct, honest, and tactical. I can help you too.
Let's avoid the divorce that you don't deserve.
​​​​Options Right Now
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Free initial phone consultation, where we discuss your case, and you receive free advice about outcome and what you should be doing right now. If we are a good fit for each other, I will offer services. Call Mr. Nordini by clicking below.​​
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Email me your questions or concerns. Simple. We figure this out as a team. I will reply to your email within 24 hours.
I'm here to help you, and I have spent my entire professional career finding out what works best and what does not work in the divorce courtroom. I offer my experience and know-how.
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Together, we can help you avoid the . . . . .
Divorce You Don't Deserve.